Free kink checklist

Your kink list, yours to share

Go through the list and mark each thing yes, maybe, or no. When you're done you get a private link you can send to a partner — open theirs next to yours and see where you match. No account, no waiting.

Nothing you mark is stored on our servers — your answers travel inside the link itself. How that works

Grouped by the 16Kinks framework — the axes and traits the test measures.

YesMaybeNoTap to set each one — tap again to clear it.

Body & sensation

Test axis · Body entry (B/M)
Light touch & teasing
Blindfolds
Temperature play (ice, warm wax)
Sex toys & vibrators
Sensory deprivation (earplugs, hoods)

Pain

Trait · Pain
Spanking (receiving)
Spanking (giving)
Impact with toys (paddles, floggers, canes)
Biting & scratching

Restraint & bondage

Trait · Bondage
Cuffs & restraints
Pinning & holding down
Rope — being tied
Rope — tying

Mind & words

Test axis · Mind entry (B/M) · Trait · Degradation
Dirty talk
Praise & affirmation
Roleplay scenarios
Orgasm control & edging
Teasing & anticipation
Verbal degradation (receiving)
Verbal degradation (giving)

Power (D/S)

Test axis · D/S · Trait · Brat
Following orders
Giving orders
Acts of service
Rules & consequences
Bratting & taming

Watching & showing

Trait · Exposure
Being watched / performing
Watching your partner
Mirrors
Dressing up & lingerie
Private photos & video

Roles & identity

Test axis · I/O · Traits · Protocol, Caregiving, Age, Pet
Rules & protocol
Honorifics & titles
Collar (symbol of belonging)
24/7 power exchange
Caregiver dynamics
Age play
Pet play

Primal

Trait · Primal
Chase & pursuit
Playful struggle & resistance
Primal headspace

Marks & aftercare

Scene ritual · Aftercare
Marks (hickeys, grip marks)
Scene rituals (openings & closings)
Aftercare
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Take the 16Kinks test and we'll pre-fill this whole list from your results — with a reason behind every mark, and the words to bring each one up with a partner.

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This is a conversation starter, not a contract. A yes is still negotiable, a no is final, and everything real gets talked about first.